the week started off with stress and panic as my aunt got violently ill mid-morning on sunday. she had an adverse reaction to the medication she was taking and things just escalated with cardiac issues and pneumonia... she's still in the hospital and in average shape, but hopefully on the mend. it was scary and emotional and we were all just hoping for the best.
my entire family is diabetic you see. and i am not exaggerating. both my parents, both sets of grandparents, most of my aunts and uncles, extended family... it is actually ridiculous. and my brother and i as well as my cousins are all predisposed to it. most of my family that have passed away has been because of not taking care of their lifestyle and in turn, their diabetes got out of control and impacted everything else - eyesight, heart conditions, difficulty healing...just complications in general.
my brother and i try to stay as healthy as possible because of this - trying to eat the right things, exercising etc. we have lost too many people or seen too many people sick because of not caring for themselves and we made a decision that we wouldn't end up like that. and my parents have finally jumped on the bandwagon.
well, i was always seen as the nag to all the diabetics - taking away the chocolates and sweets like a parent to a mischievous child. i mean we all like to indulge but when the people closest to you are destroying their bodies because of bad food choices constantly, someone needs to be the bad guy. and that is ok with me because in the long run they'll thank me for keeping them alive. my parents are not that bad, and maybe i am paranoid after seeing what my grandfather went through, but i am sorry i would rather be safe than sorry.
anyway, glad to say that my aunt has gotten a wake up call as well as everyone around us. the family has realised through this painful situation that we all need to take care of ourselves and diabetes is no joke. as indians, we take it for granted that we're predisposed to this disease and don't take it seriously. people think food has to be fatty and carby for it to taste good. indian people need to change their mindset and remember that food can be healthy and tasty. we don't need to eat white rice or roti every day. we need to eat vegetables with every meal. and everything is ok in moderation.
if i think about hinduism, a lot of our teachings and values is based on balance, and i know that that is my way forward. if everything you do is in balance then we can all be healthy and happy, even with diabetes.